Summer has come in full force again here in the LoRusso household.
The upstairs is a sauna, and our Maple tree out front, has dropped every seed, and helicopter things known to man kind.
If you want to see, just drive by and look at the end of our drive way. There is a heaping pile at the end. I find them in the kids' socks, and pockets, and embedded in my van floor mats.
Matthew has gone back to work, and there has come many changes that as a family, we have had to adjust to. Some good, and some bad. But I guess it comes with these times.
I have been hired, by myself, as Matthew's secretary. Having to keep track of every cent he spends and authorizing debit card transactions.
Matt's employer has now required us to pay everything "Up Front" and will only reimburse up to a certain amount. Which has turned me into a frugal furgie even more then I ever was before.
His co-workers may think I am crazy and they may even call me the" B" word. But to keep this family going, and pay for the things that we need, it's necessary.
Matt has been great though, listening to everything I tell him, "bring me every receipt you have" and he does it. " pack a lunch for 3 days because you only have this much money to get you through the week." I am determined to make sure every penny is a tax deduction thanks to the good old reciprocity laws.
His job has also sent him on a new job that " so far " requires him to be gone for 14 days at a time and home for 2 days, and then gone again. I am actually getting tired of the questions " how do you do it?" or "That must be so hard for you"
I just want to SLAP them some days.
YOU JUST DO IT!
GET OVER IT AND DO IT
I have never said I couldn't do it. This is normal for us now, it's not a negative situation either.
We are not the only family that does this.
Daddy is providing for us, and when he comes home we are so gratefull to be together again, and it makes our time in the Summer together even more special. We may not get to plan camping trips, or be postive on what time we are going where. I kinda like no one knowing where we are going to go, or what we are going to do.
It's like a new adventure.
I am not saying we never have our bad days. There are days when I want to pull my hair out trying to get kids to eat dinner, or go to bed on time, or dropping kids off at day care every morning at 6:20 A.M. Picking them up ontime after leaving work late, because of a bad day of not balancing, getting home at 5:30 and having to make dinner, eat it, and drive to Frederic for soccer practice by 6:00.
You know what.
I love it.
I wouldn't trade it for anything else.
My boys are growing.
And Matt and I are enjoying the ride.